Saturday, January 18, 2020

Writers' Morning Out Minutes, January 18, 2020

“The goal for today is to go a little bit further than yesterday. It’s that simple.” – Anon. WMO met at 1 p.m. on January 18th in the http://greekkouzina.com/ backroom in Pittsboro. The NCWN sponsors WMO. Carol Phillips heads WMO. 

The 2020 WMO theme is “Inspiration.” Together we’ll inspire each other to writing greatness (or, at least, mediocrity).

January was “Setting Goals.” Carol Phillips led a session on ways to identify realistic goals, should you even decide to set goals. Rick Bylina defined Smart Goals and used some of his own goals as an example. 

Overview of Goals:  by Carol Phillip

Example of [bad] Goals: 

Daily
     e.g. Write 5,000 words a day
Short-term
     e.g. Publish stories in Pushcart Winning journals
The Pushcart Prize is an American literary prize published by Pushcart Press that honors the best "poetry, short fiction, essays or literary whatnot" published in the small presses over the previous year.
     Long-Term
          e.g. Publish the Great American Novel with one of the biggies
     Lifelong
          e.g. Become a critically and commercially successful author

What’s do you think of these goals?

Are they specific—No 
Are they realistic—No
Are they Measurable—No. Best goals state how much by when
Taking baby steps—No.  

What are Good Goals? 

Carol's not a good person to talk about goals — She has a relaxed relationship with them unless forced otherwise, relaxed but successful, so

Do you need goals?
Goals trigger behavior.
Goals guide your focus.
Goals align your focus.
Goals sustain momentum.
Goals promote self-mastery/discipline.
     
Later Rick will talk more about setting SMART goals. Carol has a different approach that has worked well for her over the years—it’s rather lousy-dousy —
She does not throw an idea out to the Universe and waiting for the Universe to respond. Rather focuses her attention/actions on what she wants to accomplish and looks for opportunities to further her goals. Her goal for the year is to become a 'submitting writer".

This process works for her because her goals are things SHE WANTS to do, rather than things she thinks she should do.

Focus on what’s important to you as a writer

1.    Not everyone wants to publish — and that’s great. Reasons to write vary. Some writers want to: 
a.    Journal for their own pleasure
b.    Share with family and friends
c.    Have one story to tell
                               d.    Publish in local journal
e.    Self-publish
f.   Publish with small presses
f.     Break into NYC publishing scene ~

So, think about what it is you want to accomplish as a writer:  I want to cause readers to think and feel a little about an aspect of life, of the world, they haven’t considered~

2.    How does what’s important to you as a writer fit in with what’s important in your life outside of writing?  Carol likes exploring ideas and topics and sharing them with others.

Ways to help you to reach your goals

1.    Identify where you are now ~
2.    Make your goals as important (or more) than your favorite character’s
3.    Focus steps you can take to reach goals rather than milestones reached or not, e.g. writing, sharing, submitting
4.    Set Deadlines
a.    Give yourself consequences if deadlines are not met
b.    Give yourself rewards if deadlines are met
5.    Be accountable
a.    Writing partner(s)
b.    WMO monthly meetings
                                         i.    For those of you who would like, we can start each meeting by having a brief check-in 30 seconds or so.
                                        ii.    If you are not reaching a goal because of identifiable reasons that you need help with—every time I sit down to submit, Billy Joe nudges my arm to say let’s go play ball—mention it, and after the meeting perhaps someone can offer suggestions
                                      iii.    In March, we plan to discuss issues you may be having and/or things that are inspiring you or that you wish to share with others.

 End:

However you go about setting or not setting goals, trust your process—as long as it works. 

Smart Goals (for writers) By Rick Bylina

  • Specific: Are clear and defined. Vague goals are hard to accomplish. (If you have a long-term goal (LTG), it may be helpful to make some intermediary Smart Objectives to stay focused on the LTG.)
  • Measurable: Be able to measure progress toward the goal. (You need to understand your progress.)
  • Action Plan: Plan what you are going to do. (How do you fit it into your day?)
  • Realistic: Make sure your goal is not too hard or too easy. (This might be the hardest for most people.)
  • Time Limit: Put a realistic time limit on the goal. (Goals can be daily, weekly, monthly, or yearly.) 

##  (Don’t hide your goals. Let’s understand together what’s not working.) ##
       Rick defines goals into broad categories: Personal, Professional, and Project.  

Some of Rick’s real goals are: 

Personal:

  • Lose 3 lbs./month in 2020 by doing one-hour physical activity per day & ending late-night snacks.
  • Bring no soda products into the house. Soda-bad; Water-good.

Professional: 

(It could be poetry, fiction, non-fiction, memoir, short fiction, or whatever):

  • Weekly. Write my 400-word flash fiction per my auto-prompt by reserving time Sunday mornings.
  • Weekly. Critique ten other writer’s flash fiction pieces. (25 are in the group.)
  • 03/01. Finish updates to website to reflect future/current/past activities.
  • 03/01. Use my website’s blog capabilities to forward my writing-related posts to Facebook.
  • Yearly. Attend, at least, one conference (NCWN targeted) and one workshop (probably online).

Project: 

  • LTG:  Have completed novel ready for agents via query by 01/18/21. (Never send during holidays)
  • 02/01. Chose which of the seven half-novels I have to focus on.
  • Once chosen: write 1K words per day, six days a week, until completed. (Target 80K words)
  • 04/01. Send approximately 2K words bi-weekly for critiquing in my on-line critique group.
  • 09/01. Have all critiquing efforts and editing incorporated?
  • 10/01. Have novel out to beta readers.
  • 11/01. Have query letter and meta-data ready for others to punish me with their comments

End

Celebrate your accomplishments. Analyze your misses. The only failure is giving up.

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February is “Five Focal Points.” Goals check, and then we’ll recap 5 critical inspiration sources, which every writer needs to maximize: prompts (use them to your advantage), genre (understand the requirements), experimentation (leaving your comfort zone, POV (are you using the best one?), and a writer’s life (do you help or subvert your efforts).

March is “a General Discussion on Problems and Inspirations.” Carol will lead a discussion about issues you may be having and/or things that are inspiring you or that you wish to share with others. “Let’s get pumped up.” Watch this YouTube video now.


Tuesday, January 14, 2020

Literary Happenings January 14, 2020

Writing-related Timely Events. Have one? Let Rick Bylina know.
*01/14. 6 p.m. Finding the Portal into Your Novel. Chapel Hill Public Library, Room B. Please RSVP/Register.
*01/14. 7 p.m. David Zucchino reads from Wilmington’s Lie at Flyleaf Books in Durham.
*01/15. 6 p.m. Multiple poets share poems on Poets On Love and Loss at Orange County Main Library, Hillsborough.
*01/15. 7 p.m. JP Gritton reads Wyoming at Flyleaf Books in Durham.
*01/16. 6 p.m. $5. Stacy McAnulty on publishing children’s literature at Bookmarks, Winston-Salem.
*01/18. 1 p.m. Poetry Workshop with Pam Baggett. Orange County Main Library, Hillsborough.
*01/18. 2 p.m. Rachael Brooks debuts her memoir, Beads, at McIntyre’s Fine Books, Fearrington Village, Pittsboro.
*01/19. 2 p.m. Betty Lou Chaika’s Tea-Time Animal Medicine Stories for The Child in You at The Joyful Jewel.
*01/22. 7 p.m. Spencer KM Brown debuts his novel, Move Over Mountain, at Bookmarks, Winston-Salam.
*01/29. 7 p.m. Poetry readings by Wayne Johns, Ina Carino, and Emilia Phillips at The Regular Bookshop, Durham.
*02/01. Deadline. Know a student? Have Mom, Pop, Aunt Lily check out the NC Poetry Society student awards.
*02/14. $35. Fall in Love with Poetry writing class with Ashley Memory at The Joyful Jewel in Pittsboro.
*02/23. 2 p.m. Nancy Corson Carter reads from A Green Bough: Poems for Renewal at McIntyre’s Fine Books.
*03/27-29. $. The Gathering of Poets. The Brookstown Inn in Winston-Salem. Registration.
*03/28. $. Friday night/Sunday morning options. The High Road Festival of Poetry and Short Fiction. Winston-Salem.
*05/01. $. The Brockman-Campbell Award Competition for a book-length volume of poetry pubbed in 2019.


*For more about writing-related contests and events, See the NCWN website . ß There are quite of few.

Writing-related Ongoing Events (monthly unless otherwise noted). Have one? Let Rick Bylina know.
*2nd Sat. 10 a.m.-12 p.m. “Prompt Writing”. Flyleaf Books in Chapel Hill.
*2nd Sat. 1:30-3 p.m. Triangle Sisters-in-Crime Meeting. Open to public. Durham S. Reg. LibßNot in February.
*2nd Sun. 3-5 p.m. “Featured Poets/Open Mic.” Flyleaf Books. Pre-poetic pontificating--2 p.m. The Root Cellar.
*3rd Thurs. 6:30-8:30 p.m. “Pop-Up Poetry”. Pittsboro Center for the Arts, Poetry gabbing and learning.
*4th Sun. 2 p.m. “NC Poetry Society Poetry Series” McIntyre’s Fine Books, Fearrington Village.
*Dates vary. Creative Fiction Writing and Critique Group. Check Pittsboro Meet-ups for times and locations.
*Dates vary. Central Carolina Community College. Creative Writing Program  Spring classes available by November 22nd.
*Dates vary. Pittsboro Center For The Arts and Sweet Bee Theater. Check often for performances/programs.
*Dates vary. Redbud Writing Project. Writing courses for an adult education writing school in Chapel Hill.
*Ongoing. Have Lee County Arts Council display your poetry in Sanford. Email Leecountyarts@gmail.com with the subject: “The Art of Poetry” program for details.

Remember:  Don’t forget. The NCWN offers critiquing and editing services. See their website.

Bonus #1: And if you didn’t get enough at the slush pile reading, read this Twelve Terrible Ways To Open A Story.

Bonus #2: Need inspiration for kick-starting your writing? Do a daily prompt! Google “January Writing Prompts”.

Bonus #3: You don’t have to rely on WMO for all your reading events. Link to the local bookstores and see their calendar of events. There’s more than what meets the eye in this email.


Writers' Morning Out, January 18, 2020


“Do something today that your future self will thank you for.” – Anon.

WMO meets at 1 p.m. on January 18th in the http://greekkouzina.com/ backroom in Pittsboro. The NCWN sponsors WMO. Carol Phillips heads WMO.

 The 2020 WMO theme is “Inspiration.” Together we’ll inspire each other to writing greatness (or, at least, mediocrity).

January is “Setting Goals.” How do you set goals? How do you manage them? How do you track them? Are you overly ambitious or underwhelming in your perceived efforts? (Rick is always overly ambitious.) Come talk about goals and goal setting and excuses you will use.

February is “Five Focal Points.” Goals check, and then we’ll recap 5 critical inspiration sources, which every writer needs to maximize: prompts (use them to your advantage), genre (understand the requirements), experimentation (leaving your comfort zone, POV (are you using the best one?), and a writer’s life (do you help or subvert your efforts).

March is “a General Discussion on Problems and Inspirations.” Carol will lead a discussion about issues you may be having and/or things that are inspiring you or that you wish to share with others. “Let’s get pumped up.” Watch this YouTube video now.


Wednesday, January 1, 2020

WMO Meeting Dates, 2020



WMO is a free gathering of writers of any genre. WMO attendees enjoy monthly discussions and presentations about the subtleties, craft, and business of writing.  

All are welcome to come early for lunch and camaraderie.

Third Saturday each month, 1:00 pm
Greek Kouzina
964 East Street
Pittsboro, NC

Dates for 2020 are: 
Jan 18     
Feb 15     
Mar 21     
Apr 18      
May 16     
Jun 20      
Jul 18      
Aug 15      
Sep 19      
Oct 17      
Nov 21
Dec 19